The Low Angle Cure for Sadness
The Odds Are Good: When 25-degree meadow skipping fights back the sad and the scary
The way the East Vail chutes roll over, dropping out from under your skis at exactly the same rate that gravity pushes your forward, is a close-to perfect pitch. That feeling and that steepness are a big part of why we froth on powder days, and why we push the edges of terrain we know for sure is safe.
I didn’t know Tony Seibert, who died in an avalanche in East Vail earlier this month, but because I used to live in the community that his family founded, and because skiing is a tightly wound Aspen grove of a family tree, I know a lot of people who did know Seibert and who were devastated. Because we are so interconnected news travels fast. When something like that happens you can almost feel the sadness before you know the details. There’s a shitty point where the Facebook comments and the rest-in-peaces start to populate faster and faster and you think: Fuck. And then you think: Who.
There has been a lot of talk lately about blame and shame, and how to process the consequences after an avalanche. You can be theoretical and analytical about snowpack and slope angle and group dynamic, but it’s harder to quantify sadness. When someone dies in the mountains there is often a lot of “he died doing what he loved.” To make one generalization about something that can happen in a million different ways, yes. That is usually indisputably true. But that is not a check or a balance or a justification. It is only an observation, even when it’s accurate.
Those reflections happen every time. When my friend Andre died in an avalanche on Wolf Creek Pass in 2012, on the back end of a season full of fatal slides and near deadly falls, I thought really hard about whether and how I loved skiing. The answer was that I wasn’t sure. He had, unquestionably, died doing what he loved; he’d been chasing winter season-to-season for years. He’d just bought a new snowmobile, which had brought him into the sugar-crusted San Juans, where the snowpack released. After that I wasn’t sure if I could love skiing the same way I had before, after people I cared about, and who I knew made smart decisions, had died doing it. I got shirky and nervous when the snow moved under my feet. My sadness made me anti gravity.
But I had to get over it, because abandoning skiing would be even sadder. Rebecca Selig, who was with Tony when he died in East Vail, told the Vail Daily that she’s trying her hardest not to sink into self-pity, and that part of doing that was getting back on her skis. “I’ve been skiing my little heart out since I’ve been back. It’s what gives me life,” she told them.
There is compromise there. It’s hard to ignore the pull of the perfectly steep, especially on deep days, but the only way I know to fight the sadness is to go slow and easy. Avalanches have taught me to love the low angle. Not because I’m supposed to or because the forecast says to stay off certain slopes, but because 25-degree meadow skipping fights back the sad and the scary. There’s a good chance that I’m a wimp, but that’s how I’ve learned to let my body re-teach my brain.
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